Trusted
Membership
Nominated. Approved. Promised.
Discipline and Standards for how you show up — online, on social, and in the real world.
Speak to a Trust AdvisorEight Behaviours. Zero Exceptions.
Never do it. And never accept it aimed at you — from anyone.
Protecting children and young people
The most important element of every Trusted Member's personal Life And Standards® Promise.
To become a Trusted Member each individual applicant must be willing to declare that, as the Cornerstone Promise and primary element of their personal Life And Standards® Promise, from the day of acceptance they promise to reject, and WILL NOT knowingly or deliberately participate in, endorse, or encourage any form of harm of any child or young person — online, via electronic communication, across any social media platform, or in the physical real world.
For the avoidance of doubt +
“Harm of any child or young person” means ill-treatment or impairment of health or development, including harm suffered from seeing or hearing the ill-treatment of another person.
- Physical development
- Intellectual development
- Emotional development
- Social development
- Behavioural development
- Physical health
- Mental health
Children — younger individuals lacking the maturity and understanding to make important decisions independently.
Young people — older or more experienced minors who may possess greater maturity but remain legally and socially protected.
Your LIFE
Your STANDARDS
Claim ‘Power’ and ‘Influence’ over YOURSELF, so that no person or organization can wield power or influence over you!
Take control of your online communication.
Develop authentic personal power.
Display positive & uplifting behaviour.
Focus on success in all aspects of your life.
Always take personal responsibility.
Commit to ongoing personal development.
Control your own narrative.
Make sure your online activity and behaviour is 'on point'
Do not be led like sheep by what may seem popular in a moment of madness.
Be guided by what you know is right and beneficial to you.
Do not get caught up in the chaos.
Do your own research.
Do not get overwhelmed by negative info.
Always practice self-discipline.
Your Promise is your Power
People of good intention should take you at your word, because your word is your bond, and your bond is your promise. . .If you break your word, then you break your bond, if you break your bond, then you break your promise. . .If you break your promise then your word no longer has value. . .If your word no longer has value, people of good intention have no reason to take seriously anything you have to say on any subject. . .This is the way of the world and should be expected.
By choosing to make your personal 'Life And Standards® Promise', to yourself, you are making a solemn declaration that your word shall remain your bond, and your bond shall remain your promise.
This is what provides for authentic self-empowerment as well as constant self-discipline in all aspects of your life, therefore; Your Promise is your Power.
Four steps in.
Get nominated
An existing Trusted Member puts your name forward.
Detail +
Membership begins with nomination by an existing member of Life&Standards®DotCom. It is a community that grows by association, trust and recommendation.
Complete the CMAQ
A confidential questionnaire. Private, honest, thoughtful.
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The Confidential Membership Application Questionnaire (CMAQ) is a private, thoughtful assessment that helps us understand your commitment to the Four Foundation Standards.
Make your Promise
Your word on how you show up — online and in real life.
Detail +
Every applicant makes their own Personal Life And Standards® Promise, declaring how they will communicate and conduct themselves online, electronically, across social media and in the physical real world.
Become a Trusted Member
Recognised. Backed. Part of something.
Detail +
Approved members join the Life&Standards®DotCom ecosystem as Trusted Members, recognised for their commitment to higher standards of conduct.
£TBA
Up to 100% of fee paid by Primary Membership SponsorWhat this covers +
The annual promise fee supports the integrity and operations of the Life&Standards®DotCom ecosystem. It reflects the seriousness of the commitment each Member makes.
All new members may benefit from sponsorship by the commercial rights holder of the platform, which will if required, cover up to 100% of the promise fee.
- Foundation Standards Discipline. Personal Power coaching and guidance built on the Four Foundation Standards — Decorum, Empathy, Etiquette, Integrity — helping you find your Why and your Purpose, so no person or organisation can negatively influence, manipulate or bully you.
- Ecosystem participation. Lives, Meets, Workbooks, Booklets and Audio Lessons.
- Founder’s Forum. A monthly private discussion and Q&A with the original creator and founder.
- Members Forum. Weekly online and real world gatherings, with everyone encouraged to take part and to host.
- Life And Standards® Protection Services. Collective assistance and protection when you need it — resilience among disciplined individuals, not dependency.
What you get
- Recognition as a Trusted Member
- Access to the member ecosystem and events
- Guidance on living the Four Foundation Standards
- Protection Services when you need them
You won't be on your own.
Nobody survives alone
Humans were never built for isolation.
Communities used to protect people
Modern life quietly took that away.
You get people in your corner
Real help from members with the right skills.
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Human beings do not survive in isolation. Throughout history, resilient communities protected members when they were threatened, overwhelmed, or vulnerable. Modern life has eroded these structures, leaving many individuals isolated in moments of genuine need.
As a Trusted Member, you will benefit from collective assistance and protection if needed. Where appropriate, Life And Standards® Protection Services may alert colleagues or fellow Trusted Members who possess the understanding, skills, and expertise to provide immediate assistance and protection. This is not dependency. It is collective resilience among disciplined individuals.
Ready to make your Promise?
Already have your nomination and ready to complete the CMAQ?